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There’s no need to give someone your entire life story, or even the sound bites.
Keep it short and focus more on enquiring about them than telling them all about you.
If you want a reply, write something worth replying to.
Your life story A message that’s too long is unlikely to be read at all.
All relationships are built on good communication and in the world of online dating the first few messages you exchange are all important in deciding whether this is a match to pursue or one to discard.
It’s important to bear in mind that the messages you send a match are the first impression they’re going to get of you (apart from the information contained in your profile).
Before you write a message to a match ensure that you’ve really read their profile and found something in it that you connect with.
I’ve read your profile, and I think you sound nice…” …is way less engaging than this: “What!! Especially online, when women maybe a little more on-guard, opening with a comment on their physical appearance runs the risk of seeming shallow and off-putting.
Besides — if they really are that pretty they’re probably hearing that from every unoriginal guy on the site, and it Sometimes, misguided men will send out first messages that read like autobiographies.
It says “Hey, I might be sort of interested in you, but I’m going to let you do all the legwork.” Don’t give her a nudge and expect her to then message you, because she probably won’t.
This isn’t a cover letter for a job application; there’s really no need to be formal.